Your divorce won’t be like your friend’s divorce
Divorces can’t be that different from each other, can they?
The simple answer is yes.
Similar to other emotional periods in one’s life, individuals going through a divorce often turn to friends for advice and support. Friends will share experiences of divorce, hoping to give insight into a confusing and stressful time. This will sometimes lead the individual going through the divorce to ask their attorney why one divorce is not like the other.
Just like people, no single divorce is the same. Some divorces take a long time to resolve, some are short. Some divorces end with a settlement, others go to trial. Some divorces involve maintenance, others do not. Some divorces result in an equal division of property, some result in a disproportionate division of property. Some divorces result in an equal parenting schedule, some do not. Some divorces are expensive, some are relatively inexpensive. The list of possible differences is long.
Factors to keep in mind
Why one divorce is not like the other depends on a wide variety of factors. While the standards for each component of divorce may appear simple (equitable division of property, best interests of the children, etc.), the application of each standard may vary depending on the specific facts of each case. Divorces can be distinguished from each other based on their specific and unique facts, which is why there can be a range of results for seemingly similar situations. Further, judges are awarded substantial discretion in applying the standards, so the same set of facts may result in a different set of results depending on the judge.
The judge assigned to your case, the attorney you choose, the attorney your spouse hires, and the county in which your case is filed also affect the process. Each judge handles their courtroom differently, which could impact timing and strategy. Each county has its own specific set of rules and policies, which impact the process and cost. Attorney styles vary widely, making it extremely important to have confidence and trust in your attorney.
Let us be your legal support
The moral of this story? It is important to surround yourself with solid support during this crucial time. An experienced and trustworthy attorney will be your most reliable resource for analyzing the specific facts of your case and possible outcomes. Let Steiner Howeth Pasquesi & Hatch be your trusted ally during this critical time in your life.
